Affair Fantasy

A fantasy or a friend?

Even after an affair has started, many wayward spouses still believe that they have everything under control. This fantasy of control is generally coupled with the belief that an affair partner is still just a friend. At the same time, there are those that are less certain if everything is as it should be. These…

Boundaries

What constitutes cheating?

When it comes to boundaries, not all relationships are created equal. Actions that one couple find perfectly acceptable, can be well beyond tolerable limits for another couple. Despite the risks that uncertainty causes, many couples avoid discussing acceptable behaviours. Preferring instead to let perceived values and best assumptions take care of the relationship. Despite it…